Aww! Kaya over at Under His Hand put me on her list of “beautiful bloggers.” Just when you think you’re totally not on the radar of someone you read, they go and surprise you like this. Granted, this is a meme more than an actual “award” but I will gratefully take recognition and link love from any other respected blogger.
Apparently the original shtick of the award is to name 3 bloggers for the award, and then list 7 things about yourself that your readers don’t know. Hmm. Kaya did things her way and I can’t help but think I’m going to do that too.

Some beautiful bloggers you should know about (more in my sidebar as well!):

Bad Bad Girl

Butchtastic Kyle

Coy Pink

Dangerous Lilly

Scarlet Lotus

The Pink Poppet

Wilhelmina Wang

So there’s 7 bloggers…. How about 3 things you don’t know about me?

1. I didn’t come out to myself as bi until I was around 27 or so. Oh sure I had fantasized about women, had crushes on women and masturbated to pictures of sexy women, but never had I truly admitted to myself my bisexuality until then.

2. My coming out to myself occurred the first time I took ecstasy. Haven’t taken it in many years now so I suppose no new revelations will come from that influence.

3. I lost my virginity on my 18th birthday with my first boyfriend who I had been seeing for six months at that point. Never again would I date someone anywhere near that long before fucking them.

Beautiful Bloggers originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on April 12, 2010.

1. Your role?

submissive

2. Current relationship?

I have two. One is a D/s relationship with MasterDoc. The other is an egalitarian vanilla relationship with Davey.

3. Your favorite type of play?

Flogging/caning/spanking. I’d like to do more bondage though.

4. Your most hated type of play?

piss play, but hating it makes it kinda hot to be forced to do (I’m a sick freak, I know.)

5. The most annoying habit of your owner/slave/whatever you call your SO?

He has attention deficit disorder, so he can be really unorganized and messy. But I love him, and he loves me despite MY annoying habits.

6. Your deepest fear?

Being abandoned by someone I love

7. Your most memorable public experience (or what you would like to do in public)?

There’s been so many! One that pops to mind is the time MasterDoc fucked me up the ass on a couch in a swing club.

8. What gets you in the mood?

Dominance. Touching. Bondage. Grabbing my hair.

9. Favorite method of masturbation?

Bullet vibe pressed to clit

10. Scariest thing you’ve seen or heard of in BDSM land?

I saw a picture recently of a pussy that was laced up with what looked like shoelaces (i.e., the laces were thick and the holes they went through were large). There’s also the notion of eating poo – ick. (Not to be judgmental. After all, many things I get up to freak other people out!)

11. Number of hours you spend on Fet when you should be doing other things?

Not a whole lot really.

12. Thing that was hotter in fantasy than it was in reality?

The gangbang filled with friends I arranged for my 35th birthday.

13. Most longed-for experience?

Being passed around as a sex toy from person to person at a party

14. Ouchiest toy?

The evil strap, as I call it.

15. Book or movie that every newbie has to read/see?

The Story of O

16. Thing you’d like to change about yourself?

I’d like to be less emotional and less prone to depression.

17. Thing you’re most proud of?

Outside of bdsm – my degrees and graduating summa cum laude both times

Within bdsm – continuing to grow and try new things in the spirit of submission and pleasing my Dom

18. Funniest dom name you’ve ever heard?

I wish I could remember. Probably some name that sounded like the guy took himself waaaaay to seriously.

19. Do your family and friends know?

Family – no. Friends – yes for the most part.

20. Is twenty questions too many?

Nah.

BDSM Meme originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on January 8, 2010.

The Rules:
-Link to your tagger and list these rules on your blog.
-Share 7 facts about yourself on your blog – some random, some weird.
-Tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blog.
-Let them know they have been tagged by leaving a comment on their blog.

1. My second toe is longer than my big toe on each foot.

2. The first time I went to a bdsm club was on a first date with a cross dresser. (Ok so I mentioned this a couple of entries ago.)

3. I once had sex in a burning building. (I really should look up where I posted about that before, but I’ll let you all ponder that without an explanation instead.)

4. Before I decided to become a librarian, I seriously considered becoming a sex therapist/educator instead. I still think about it from time to time and go looking at graduate programs in human sexuality online. Also, if the Kinsey Institute wasn’t in the godforsaken midwest I’d want to be a librarian there.

5. I’m left-handed.

(Hard to come up with these without giving out too much identifying information. Damn pesky need for some anonymity!)

6. I chose Nadia West for my pseudonym because as a little girl I wanted to be a gymnast like Nadia Comaneci (never came anywhere remotely close to being a gymnast, but I was so awed watching her perform) and West is an homage to Mae West.

7. As a child and teen, at various points I had aspirations to be a: nurse (like my mom and grandma), teacher of the blind and deaf, microbiologist, pizza maker (I loved watching them toss the pizza in the air!), a singer in a band, graphic designer, lyricist, poet, and more that I can’t remember.

Now for tagging people – I don’t think I can tag 7 people who haven’t already been tagged (or who I know well enough to know they’d not be annoyed by a meme) but let’s try. If you’ve already been tagged, my apologies. If you hate memes, then just ignore this.

Coy Pink (Drat, it turns out she’s been tagged. I forgot.)

A Little Cinful

Natty

Kaya

Tag, I’m It originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on October 22, 2008.