Erogenous Zones Series | Diary of a Kinky Librarian

This is week two of writing prompts from Dangerous Lilly.

The face can be quite erogenous for me. Just MasterDoc stroking my cheek, or holding my face in his hands can help slip me into subspace. I also like when he slaps my face, particularly in the heat of passion. The skin on my face is fairly sensitive and I like having my face touched by MasterDoc.

The face also includes the mouth, and I just love licking, sucking, nibbling. I love when he thrusts his cock into my mouth, hitting the back of the throat. I love when the saliva flows all over his cock. I love being kissed; feeling lips pressed against mine. I also love feeling lips pressed against the skin of my face. Or someone’s hot breath right against the skin.

A blindfold resting on my eyes not only blocks my sight, but also makes me feel a little “wrapped up,” sort of comfortingly swaddled. A gag or muzzle makes me extra aware of my mouth, be it because the saliva flows around the side of the ball gag, or because I can’t move my lips with duct tape across my mouth. All noise is reduced to moans. Words are indistinct.

On the other side of the coin, my face is very expressive, particularly during orgasm. I’ve seen photos of myself in that state, and it is really hot. The face can be a source for turning on your partner.

My friend Dangerous Lilly has started a writing prompt series for sex bloggers. Considering my writers’ block as of late, I can really use something to spur me to write. In her series, bloggers who want to participate can post an entry about the topic at hand during the week of the topic. This week: head and neck (not including the face).

My head and neck can be very erogenous zones indeed. I remember when I was younger I would get so turned on by nibbles to my neck. I would make out with my high school boyfriend during lunch and be totally wet by the end from his nips and licks at my neck. Lately, I’ve dated Davey, who had an extraordinarily small mouth and couldn’t nibble my neck (seriously) and MasterDoc, who doesn’t go for my neck much, and when he does if he hasn’t shaved it tickles so horribly I just giggle and flinch. I kinda miss that sensation of having my neck gently nibbled. (I’m not a fan of hickeys that can be seen with clothes on.)

A very sensitive part of the neck is the throat. And while breathplay can make me nervous, having a hand with a firm grip around my throat (but not squeezing) can be highly erotic. I find lately that control turns me on more than pain. (Although I certainly loved the heavy beating MasterDoc gave me last Monday.) Feeling that MasterDoc is in control of me, that I’m at his mercy, turns me on something fierce. Holding me at the throat, or grabbing my hair puts me into that special sub space. He often grabs my hair and I LOVE it. I keep hoping he’ll be more assertive with me – not more sadistic, but even more in control during sex. I suppose I don’t want to just submit easily, but instead I want to be taken.

When talking about the erogenous possibilities of the head, we can’t forget the gray matter inside of it. The mind is the largest sex organ. Talking dirty or domly to me is a sure-fire way to get me going most of the time. I enjoy a good mindfuck, if it’s executed with our mutual pleasure in mind.

On a man, I love seeing the nape of his neck. I think this is a sexy spot and probably why I prefer short hair on men. I love stroking through his hair, and then down his neck. Nibbling on a guy’s neck can be nearly as rewarding as having my own neck nibbled.

Next week: the face.