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The Week that Was

Nadia — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 00:13:02 +0000

I just want to give a quick shout out to any and all bloggers who link to my blog. Thank you! I particularly appreciate it as my output has gone down. I would imagine fewer people linking to me in that case, but it seems like a good number of bloggers like my blog. This is an awesome compliment.

I’ve been dealing with gastrointestinal issues thanks to a new medication I’m on. I keep telling my intestines that the drug is for my brain (depression) and not them, so cut it out. So far they don’t listen. Immodium has beaten them into some semblance of submission. Mid-week I was feeling the effects of dehydration before I started loading up on the Immodium. It wasn’t severe but fatigue and headache were kicking my ass. I took up drinking sports drinks, which helped a bit. The fatigue unfortunately made my night with Shane less sexy than he had hoped. He had been on a couple of dates recently, and to a kink event, but hadn’t gotten laid, so he texted me on Monday to say he planned to ravish me all night long. It would have been awesome if I felt well, but I left work early that day with a headache and immediately took a nap when I got home.

Shane didn’t lose out entirely. When I had some energy early in the evening I blew him on the couch until he came. I do like making sure my partners are taken care of if I can. But sex didn’t happen as I was just so tired. We watched a few episodes of “Stephen Fry in America” and cuddled on my bed a bit before he left when it was bedtime for me.

Our schedules are so different, it makes dating hard sometimes. He owns a business and usually gets out of work around 11:30 p.m. I’m usually in bed starting to fall asleep around then. He visits me on his day off, but of course I run out of steam before him, and I have to get up early to get to work by 9 a.m. I keep hoping he’ll meet someone else to date and fuck so he doesn’t have to rely on me only. A few times in recent months I’ve not felt well on the one night a week I see him, and while this isn’t bad for me what with MasterDoc in my life, Shane loses out. He’s a sweetie and I feel bad about that, even though he insists it’s not a problem.

Earlier in the week, before I felt the effects of more than a week of GI issues, I had some hot sex with MasterDoc. It started off with a simple blow job, but as he gagged me on his cock he told me to come. I came simply from gagging on his cock. What a perv I am! Our connection is pretty damn amazing.

We moved to me hanging my head over the end of the bed. It was really hot and I’m amazed at how much longer I can keep his cock in my throat now. Hanging my head upside down isn’t conducive to a long scene, but MasterDoc gave me this beautiful orgasm, and he lifted my head up as I came, and turned me onto my side on the bed where I finished coming. It was somehow magical. He controlled my body in so many ways for that brief period of time. I couldn’t help but tell him, “That was awesome, Sir.” I meant it wholeheartedly.

He went off somewhere in the apartment for a bit, and I grabbed my Wahl massager to warm myself up. I kept myself on the edge of coming and when he returned he was glad to see me warming up. He fucked me from above using a female condom for a change. I’m not fond of them, it was irritating my vagina at first. But then I remembered – I was just fantasizing about him hurting me moments before while he was out of the room. I managed to eroticize the discomfort and come hard. He tried to flip me over and fuck me from behind, but the outer part of the condom rubbing against the opening to my vagina was producing a lot of irritation. He said, “Oh well, you’ve come enough already!” I had to agree.

I helped him come by probing his ass with Duke, a prostate toy. It’s wonderful to see him come. He doesn’t come easily and we have to make a special effort to make sure it happens.

The Week that Was originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on January 27, 2012.

e[lust] #26

Nadia — Tue, 24 May 2011 22:52:15 +0000

Photo courtesy of Sapio Slut

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #27? Start with the rules and subscribe to the RSS feed and Twitter for updates and submission reminders.

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Bikery – The mental image of Suzy mounting this thing and pedaling herself towards a quaking orgasm flashed across my mind’s eye and I grinned into her face.

If you are monogamous can you learn to be polyamorous? – Do you think that someone who is monogamous can learn to be polyamorous for a partner, or do you think they are courting disaster?

Hot Wax – I detached myself from what she was doing to me. *breathe* She pulled again. I came from the pain, motionless, silent, and helpless to stop it. She continued.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Spring - My eyes wide, there was no time for reaction as another crowd was wandering down the path. Our eyes locked and Daniel smirked, attempting to find something innocuous to say.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

What is Sex Positive? - Just because I create & run something, doesn’t mean I’m a dictator. e[lust] is as much yours as it is mine, and I value the opinions of everyone.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable ~after this point~. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Writing

6. Gluttony

Erotica: Suit & Tie Guy VS The Construction Worker pt II

Skate / For Wank Wednesday

Soak(ed)

The tables have turned

Wanting it Bad. Wanting it Hard

What I will do with a dildo: Sing, do with a dildo

Kink & Fetish

As much sex as he can fuck into me

Afternoon Sex x 4

Fetish/Fashion

I used to be a Masochist

Now Lick My Boots Clean, Submissive

spank, fisted and strung up

The Room

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

A sex-positive female in a sex-negative society

A Period Drama

On Safer Sex and STIs; Musings on The Swingset

Question Month #4

Sense of Responsibility

Simple?

Touch My Cock

Why Did I Engage?

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Hello, My Name is Danny Wylde

Internet Pornography and Women: It doesn’t have to feel bad

e[lust] #26 originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on May 24, 2011.

e[lust] #23

Nadia — Wed, 23 Feb 2011 14:04:51 +0000

My friend Lilly runs e[lust] a regular compilation of sexy blog posts submitted by the authors. If you have a blog, please join us! I dream of making it in the top three but so far competition has been stiff. Still, I’d rather be part of a blogging community that has a lot of quality posts!

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #24? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Roadmaps of Consent – I fucking love consent. I love safewords. I can be much more cruel, and push much harder, if I trust my partner to tell me when I go too far.

Staying Safe – One cock, from one man, missing one condom, ultimately led to my brother’s death. And that sucks.

Flying the Friendly Skies – One button on her sweater was undone, there was a rip in her hose, scratches on her boots, and her hair was carelessly pinned back with stray wisps of hair escaping. There was a curious flavor of soiling about her, something a bit dirty and unkempt.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Labels and my thoughts… - In the past year and a half I have gone from being someone that was lost, without identity that fit, rattling around inside myself to someone that has names for what they are.

~ e[lust] Editress: Dangerous Lilly

See also: Pleasurists #116 and #117 for all your sex toy review needs

Kink & Fetish

5 Kinky Toys from the Dollar Store

Alive in my Skin

Dacryphilia

Digitalized for Posterity

Eroti…ca

filthy…

He ripped a string of orgasms from me, and then ramped it up

Manual Dexterity

Nadia’s Surprise

Orgasms, Spoons Rests, and Fishnets! (The Play Party)

Punishment, humiliation and bondage

Schoolgirl in Saturday Detention

Erotic Writing

dancing with (& then kinkily fucking) the dj

You’re Gonna Keep My Soul

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

A Doggie Kind of Love

Ashamed?! Are You Kidding Me?

Giggles, Groans and Panting

I Can Imagine How You Feel

Sex As Love

6 Moves Men Need to Be Sex Gods in the Bedroom

Terminology Fundamentalism

The COME HITHER QUIVER -or- How To Squirt

This Love

What I Want

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Kink Network Announces the Opening of Their Adult Blog Host Kinky-Blogging.com

Porn, degradation, and Khan Tusion

Women With Two Vaginas

Kink, virginity and big-tittied whores

e[lust] #23 originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on February 23, 2011.

e[lust] #22

Nadia — Tue, 18 Jan 2011 23:46:24 +0000

Photo courtesy of Lady Grinning Soul

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #23? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Erotic asphyxiation: treatments of kink in therapy and the media - Kink and BDSM practitioners often come to an enhanced understanding of their own desires through the emphasis on personal boundaries and communicative consent which arises from a responsible approach to power and pain play.

Mirror, mirror – I found myself back there again, perched on the edge of the white expanse, spreading myself shamelessly in front of the glass

Worry – I’ve been thinking about rape culture more than ever before. On the outside, much of K’s and my play looks like sexual abuse. It’s not, because consent is always central.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

gender and misogyny: responsibility and erotic writing – I spent a good portion of my adult life being gender fluid myself …, and have partnered with several gender fluid folks as a top. Creating representation of us and our eroticism feels so vital to me, so important.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Help End the Backlog - Speaking out works. Taking action works. Silence doesn’t. Politicians on every level need to hear your voice saying “this is unacceptable”. 76%. 3/4. That’s how many rapists get away with it on a national level.

See also: Pleasurists #111 and #112 for all your sex toy review needs

Erotic Writing

A Tryst By The Car

Compliant

Fantasy: Brand New Day

First-Time Sex: How I Lost My Virginity

Happy New Year

Hysteria

Indiscretions Vol. 1: Caught And Wild Chlid

Like Mother, Like Daughter (part two)

Loving her, Mounting her, Owning her

Whenever I’m Alone With You

Yeeees. Date Night

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Breaking Up, Polyamory Style

Computer Sex

Douchebagopolis – When Communication Fails At A Swinger Party

Epiphora’s best and worst sex toys of 2010

Good Head

Hormones & Biological Clock Ticking

Lockets, Sins and Ink

Off My Chest

Swing Shift Volume 39- One and Only

Semi-Rant Part Two

Kink & Fetish

Barely Cooking Christmas Party

Master’s Good Medicine

Paddled and Fucked

Parodies and Pizza Boys

Photographer

School Girl Night

shes and me…

You Know It Was Good When…

e[lust] #22 originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on January 18, 2011.

e[lust] #21

Nadia — Thu, 28 Oct 2010 00:52:38 +0000

Photo courtesy of Evocative Abyss

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #22? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Important e[lust] update: e[lust] will be going on hiatus for the holidays. The editions for November and December would both occur around the holidays and I know I’ll be short on both submissions and judges as well as personal time. e[lust] #22 will return in January, with ample advance warning, so please make sure you’re subscribed for updates!

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

D/s Without the D/s? – This is one of those situations in a real time D/s relationship where much of the “fun” aspects of the D/s needs to be stuffed in the closet for a bit. And for us, it’s not a great time to be either a masochist or a sadist. We can deal with that.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Yes, Jelly Sex Toys Can be Dangerous – Even if a jelly rubber toy says “phthalate-free”, it still can contain toxic chemicals that can cause skin reactions in some people. These toys are still non-porous and can harbor dirt and bacteria because they cannot be sanitized.

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Unfortunately, this edition has no Top Three picks as I didn’t have enough volunteer judges. If you’d like to volunteer to help, visit this page to find out more info and ensure that the Top Three picks continue.

See also: Pleasurists #101 and #100 for all your sex toy review needs.

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

All Painted Up…

A Modest Proposal: Should Ginger & Cooper Fuck?

Happy Sexual Freedom Day

How Do You Explain

Life in spanking after 30: part 2

Erotic Writing

blindfold

Fantasy: Movie Night

Feeling Helpless

Gabrielle, Guest Star

Happy Anniversary…

History Lesson

I Still Don’t Know How You Taste

Monday Morning 2am

Metallic Seduction

Need

New Erotic Story For The Holidays – Tinsel Temptation

Putting the car into park

The Ordeal (Part Four)

The Sweetest Violation

The Young Mom

The Moment

The Soccer Mom

Timeless in a Window’s Light

Kink & Fetish

A space to hate and rage and be angry (photo story)

Beyond the Bedroom

Does liking Helmut Newton equal a fetish?

Happy Halloween: Light Me Up

I am all pins and needles

Kink and Fibromyalgia

Ownership and Monogamy

Punishing the servants

Switching It Up

The Cage

The Sacred Swinger Holiday: Halloween!

the most amazing night with HIM

The Pedicure

The Right Question

Wax on, wax off!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

All Roads Lead to Acceptance… I hope!

Crisis Averted

Dear boyfriend, I love you. And your cock.

Having Great Goddamned Expectations

If You Google it, I will Answer #9

I Don’t Know If I’ve Ever Been Really Loved By a Hand That’s Touched Me

How to Massage Man’s G-spot

My Coming Out Story

National Coming Out Day

Recovering From Anorexia

Role Reversal

Sadie’s Condom PSA

e[lust] #21 originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on October 27, 2010.

Protected: Blogger Drama or Real Issues?

Nadia — Sun, 24 Oct 2010 17:45:27 +0000

Protected: Blogger Drama or Real Issues? originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on October 24, 2010.

NY Sex Blogger Calendar Party #3

Nadia — Sat, 02 Oct 2010 22:33:58 +0000

I had a wonderful time at the sex blogger calendar party! Each year it gets better and better as Tess and Diva work on refining the experience. I hope they raised a load of money for the Woodhull Freedom Foundation – I bought raffle tix and a calendar to lend my support (and two dates on the calendar – my blogiversary in January and MasterDoc’s birthday). Sadly, we need groups such as Woodhull who will support our rights to be sexual in whatever (consensual, sane) way we see fit to practice it. We still live in a world where a teacher can be put through hell because she’s open about her previous work as a sex worker. While I can see the objections that what she did was illegal (although I don’t think it should be illegal), I do not think that sex work in and of itself makes anyone a bad person or role model. Her reputation as a teacher should stand on how she has performed in the classroom.

Woodhull Freedom Foundation (named after 19th century feminist and first female presidential candidate in the United States, Victoria Claflin Woodhull – look her up) has this as its mission and vision:

Mission: To affirm sexual freedom as a fundamental human right

Vision: Woodhull envisions a world that recognizes sexual freedom as the fundamental human right of all individuals to develop and express their unique sexuality; to be personally autonomous with regard to bodily integrity and expression; and to enjoy sexual dignity, privacy and consensual sexual expression without societal or governmental interference, coercion or stigmatization.

I got to meet a ton of bloggers last night – some I met at previous parties, some I met for the first time. It seems like more and more of the people I follow (on twitter and/or blog) show their faces, so I was able to go up to people who looked familiar and introduce myself. (I’d be too shy if I didn’t have a good idea it was someone I already interact with.) I listed the most comprehensive list I could on twitter if you’re curious to see who I got to hang out with.

On a totally self-absorbed note, I feel like last night was my time to “try on” my new, thinner body. (I have no illusions that I’m thin as of yet. I’m still chubby. But I’m now merely “overweight” whereas at the start of this year (and for many years past) I qualified as “obese.”) I wore a form-fitting sheath dress (only $30 at Target! Whoo!) and received many compliments. When I met JD Bauchery of Hot Movies for Her, she said that the Porn Librarian had told her that she met me (I introduced myself earlier after seeing her “I heart girl porn” shirt) and that I was hot. Then JD said that she agreed. Rowr! It felt good to be called hot by two women who see a LOT of hotness as part of their jobs. Miss Darling also tweeted some very kind comments as well. I’m sure part of the improved reactions from people is not just fewer pounds on my body, but also a new-found confidence. Not only do I feel more attractive and more confident (not that I had any trouble attracting people before) but my knees rarely hurt and I can, for the first time since before college (!), wear skirts or dresses and not deal with the dreaded “chub rub.” When you’re overweight, your inner thighs tend to rub together to the point where they chafe. This chafing is pretty damn painful, so for many years I wore bicycle shorts under my skirts (not exactly sexy) or more recently I heard about using A&D Ointment to lubricate your thighs so they don’t chafe. But wow, this week I realized I no longer need to do either of those things. I’m doing a little happy dance here. I’m proud of myself as I’ve been fat a long time and felt like I could never succeed at losing weight. Somehow having MasterDoc and DeeDee working on it at the same time (as well as having a smart phone with a calorie counter app to make things concrete for me) I have succeeded. I’ve been working very hard at improving my eating habits and making it a permanent change. I saw N (queer Burlesque Queen Extraordinaire) for the first time in months and she said she barely recognized me as I had lost so much weight. I’ve mostly seen the same people for the past several months, and the weight loss was too gradual for people who see me weekly to notice it much. I feel pretty damn wonderful that I’ve succeeded this far. I hope to continue getting healthier and slimmer. No worries though, I have no desire to starve myself or be very thin – my body is designed to be curvy. But I can be in better shape and that I’m working on.

Blondie met us there and it was wonderful to hang out with her. She, MasterDoc and I went to the dumpling place down the block and had some food and good chat. The whole evening was chaotic (and crowded rooms are not my thing!) but all in all I had a great time and saw so many people. Hopefully I didn’t leave anyone out of my tweets but if I have it is totally unintentional. I was thrilled to meet so many nice perverts yet again!

NY Sex Blogger Calendar Party #3 originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on October 2, 2010.

e[lust] #20

Nadia — Fri, 01 Oct 2010 04:55:22 +0000

Photo courtesy of Dangerous Lilly

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #21? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

On Making Sex Last: Cheerleading & Open Relationships - as long as the possession stuff can be fun and consensual, and not interfering with each other’s sovereignty, I think the two—cheerleading and possession—aren’t necessarily mutually exclusive.

Owned – I had almost forgotten that while here, with him, I was HIS plaything. I was OWNED by him. We had discussed this. I knew the rules. I must not forget again.

The sheer indecency of what we are doing – Is he looking for what I’m looking for? Surely so—all men want that, don’t they? A flaming succubus that comes only in the dark to bring unworldly pleasures and leave behind strange lingering dreams that spice their dutiful daytime lives.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Stop Hating on Campus Sex Education – Clearly, there is a need for this education, because if it doesn’t come from sexuality educators, it comes from word of mouth (which can often provide incorrect information), or from the internet, or from trial and error.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Is it Really “Strange” Sex?

See also: Pleasurists #96 and #97 for all your sex toy review needs.

Kink & Fetish

My adventure in subbing continues

My Big Pink Robot

Play Party!

Sisters unite for the MFW, part 2

The one with the Violet Wand

Turning Lemons into Lemonade

Wanton Wednesday: Bitten

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Cunning Linguists Are We: Cunnilingus 101

Crushing Swingerphobia by Hitting the Club

Coming Out & Invisible Illness

Hold Up Stockings

My First Grue in Review

NSE – New Swinger Energy

Relationships and Emotions

Sadie’s Thoughts on Cheating. Confession #507

Three’s Company, Too – Dreaming of the Multi-Relationship Home

The Sisterhood

Thoughts on bisexuality and visibility

When I’m Done With Crying…

Erotic Writing

Building the Anticipation

Coming Back to Me

Extraordinary Uses for Ordinary Objects

“Enslaved The Story of Jen” Chapter 13

Like Mother, Like Daughter

My first little girly night

e[lust] #20 originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on October 1, 2010.

e[lust] #18

Nadia — Thu, 05 Aug 2010 00:51:55 +0000

HNT Courtesy of Barefoot Dreamer – Photo by Jon H.

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #19? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Off Limits for 30 Days – “You don’t listen very well,” I heard her hiss. “That’s off limits, damn you.” And there was a crack and fiery agony clawed into my back.

The Joy of Sucking Cock – I wonder at times if that is why I am such a “good little cocksucker” as W calls me. When I am deeply into it, I almost enter this place where I am both the sucker and suckee, and it is as though it is MY cock being sucked on.

This intensity gets me riled when I am tied up (photo story) – James picked up that evil strap again. I watched helplessly as he positioned himself to use it on my pussy… Ever so lightly he started. Flick, flick, flick.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Ask Lilly: How do I know if a sex toy has phthalates in it? – The studies going around are saying that phthalate exposure can damage all sorts of organs, and can possibly cause cancer. There are a lot of harmful things in our world these days that we can’t avoid – so when we CAN avoid something like toxins in our sex toys, we should.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Portal. Confession #493 – It truly is a spiritual give and take, these sexual relationships I form. I can cross the threshold and see however much of someone that I choose to see, with whomever it is that I am involved with.

See also: Pleasurists #88 and #89 for all your sex toy review needs.

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Defying Gravity with Carrie Moon

Interview with Dylan Ryan

Is “The Smoking Jacket” a Smoking Gun?

Naked and Famous

That’s discrimination! -or- Two Words I’m Sick of Hearing

Very Deserved Wrath- Not So New Problems

Kink & Fetish

10 Things I Love About My Slave

A Rope Pride Flag?

At Last

Correlations

dutch part 6 – the finale!

Discovering DebPorn

Independence Day

Kinkster Me

No Mosquito Fetish Here

Our First Play Time – Part 1

Please

Post Exploratorium HNT

Sex and Kink

Subspace

Thoughts on Single Tailing

THIS is what happens to naughty little redheaded sluts…

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

A Declaration of Independence — From the eXes

Ass to Mouth

Bi The Way – Male Bisexuality and Swinging

Don’t Beat Yourself Up

Euphemisms

Flying The Red Flag

Natural Born Swingers

Partnerships

Transtastic: On Coming Out as a Political Act

The Ins & Outs of Anal Sex

The Cialis Effect

Unusually High Sex Drive

Where is My G Spot?

Why Won’t Anyone Respond? — Help for Your Swinger Inbox

Erotic Writing

Adventures in Fisting

A Collision of Desires

boo full

Creature of habit pt. 3

Flashback: Our First Time

Fred

Fantasy: Australia Day

Good Morning

Get Down, Dirty & Get The Hell Out

The Ordeal (part one)

Upstairs. Now.

Wrestle

e[lust] #18 originally appeared on Diary of a Kinky Librarian on August 4, 2010.

e[lust] # 17

Nadia — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 23:21:01 +0000

Photo courtesy of Elle from Kink Unleashed

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #18? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Editor’s Note: A little change in how things are done for this edition – you’ll notice there are no “Top 3″ picks – due in part to the holiday I ended up being extremely short on judges and I didn’t have enough for fair voting. So instead, I expanded my “Featured Post”. (If you’d like to volunteer to be an occasional judge for e[lust], just email me, Lilly, at questions.e.lust @ gmail.com) Also, please be sure to check out the new summer schedule in effect until the 20th edition.

~ Featured Posts (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Why Pride is Still Important – When someone tells me that they don’t think Pride is necessary, I can’t help but believe that they go through life with tunnel vision. I live in New York where for the most part I can walk around being a big ol’ queen and I’ll make it home alive, but there are people who live in places where they can’t. Even here in New York you’ll get called a faggot from time to time by passing cars or groups of punks, and even here in New York I hear stories of people getting the shit kicked out of them just because they were gay.

Fantasies and Condoms – Our culture has created a narrative in which sex only feels good and looks sexy if no one is protected. We’re all suffering from this narrative, but sex workers are probably suffering the most.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Some days we need a little hope – I encourage you to practice random acts of kindness that could be worthy of inclusion on the site (GivesMeHope.com). Be nice, be caring, let your heart open up just for the sake of bringing someone some happiness or comfort. Do you know how good it feels to just give?

See also: Pleasurists #83 and #84 for all your sex toy review needs.

Kink & Fetish

An Anal Adventure

Bound in the Night

Being a Tart

Danger may explode without warning

Found It: Pearls for the Submissive Wife

Morning Rituals

Shoe Slut

(another!) Shoe Slut

Spanking my ass while fucking so he feels every wiggle

Submission is impossible in the absence of humanity