Last night, I got to review the strap on harness I’ve had on hand for quite a while now. Our friend V. came over for a birthday spanking (caning, flogging, etc.) and we used it on each other to see how it was.
Watching her get beaten by MasterDoc was lots of fun. He secured her to the scoop and left her with a very red, welted ass. He also used the heavy flogger on her upper back as she quite likes that. She then got a sybian ride. Unfortunately, it numbs her out after a short period of time.
The sextoy.com site says that the Fetish Fantasy Plus Size Strap on Harness is made of leather. I would have assumed that it’s faux leather due to the stiffness of the material. This isn’t one of those butter-soft leather harnesses, it’s stiff. If you’re petite the part that goes between your thighs will undoubtedly dig into you and possibly chafe. The loops that attach the ring to the harness are also stiff and they poke the recipient when fucked. It’s not painful so much as distracting. It’s not clear if the material would soften up a little with wear, but it doesn’t seem like it would ever be as soft and comfortable as you would want a harness to be.
“Bow down before my almighty cock!”
The dildo included is jelly, the box says it’s “phthalate-free” but I must point out that jelly is porous and so you should still use a condom with it every time – even if you’re the only person using it. We found the jelly dong to be a little too flexible, and difficult to keep inside because of this. It’s fairly long and for me it was too long and poked my cervix. This, of course, can be dealt with by not thrusting as deep. V. and I agreed that we prefer silicone cocks. And certainly you could use a silicone dildo in place of the dildo provided.
I put my hand at the base to keep the sharp bits from poking V.
I fucked her with the harness first, and it certainly is made for plus size women. I was able to put it on with lots of extra in the straps, so an even more voluptuous woman could wear it as well. The straps, when properly tightened did stay put but there was still some gaping between pelvis and harness at points. Still, it did what it was supposed to do. Despite my lack of strap on experience (I have a little but very little) I fucked her until she came. MasterDoc snapped pics for this review while we fucked. It’s such a cool feeling to fuck a woman until she comes.
See the red welts on her ass from the earlier beating?
Next, she tried the harness on and used it on me. She’s shorter than I am (I’m downright amazonian) and said the harness didn’t fit quite as comfortably. It gaped a bit in front as well. But it did stay tightened.
While it does what it’s supposed to, this harness is not the best out there. I’d recommend investing in a more expensive but more flexible harness. The between the thighs styling is good for transmitting some pressure to the wearer during sex, but my personal favorite style of harness is one where the straps go around each thigh and leave the pussy open and accessible. (Your mileage may vary of course.) If you get this harness, it will do what it’s supposed to, but it’s less than ideal.
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Great review, good honest opinion. The pics are great as well!
Also, I love the new banner on your blog too, very nice!
The pictures are amazing. You both look like you’re having so much fun. I need to find a woman to fuck to test this theory about enjoying it until they cum.
Sorry to hear about the flaws it had. It’s hard to even find plus-size harnesses out there sometimes, so I’m glad *someone* did something about it, even if it wasn’t perfect.
There are better quality plus size harnesses, however. I have one I purchased at Babeland several years ago that’s soft leather and fairly comfortable – adjustable and plus size.
I’m looking for a strapon for my wife and her Girl Friend, both of whom are plus sized. You said this wasn’t your favorite strapon…. what one is? I want to get a quality piece of “equipment” for them.
I have a nice leather plus-size harness from Babeland that I bought years ago. The leather needs to be decent enough not to be stiff like the one I reviewed – you send up chafed from the harness. I love Babeland and bet they’d have something suitable. (Please use my link on the sidebar! I get a tiny commission.)