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Pleasurists #52

Published on November 5, 2009 in pleasurists, reviews and sex toys. 0 Comments

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Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #51? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #53? Submit it here before Sunday November 1st at 11:59pm PDT. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.

Note: Apologies for being late yet again, I was so hoping not to be this week. In case you don’t follow Pleasursts on twitter I was in the hospital for a few days and sans laptop. Sorry!

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Editor’s Pick

  • Tantus Vamp by Amber from Scarlet’s Letter

    • I love this toy! The color is rather unique to most other realistic dildos. The subtle sparkle of the silicone makes it pretty without being too loud and obnoxious. The ridges and texture of the shaft of the toy feels marvelous, and the slightly curved prominent head of the toy feels fantastic.

    Note: I am endlessly amused by the Tantus Vamp, plus it was just Halloween, and Amber’s great review was too good to pass up as an editor’s pick. I just wish Tantus would make a sparkly red one, I’d be all about it.

On to the reviews…

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Anal Toys

Toys for Cocks

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

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Adult Books/Games

Adult Movies/Porn

Miscellaneous

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HNT

Published on November 5, 2009 in hnt and photos. 10 Comments

IM000043bHappy Half Nekkid Thursday folks!

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“Now go away, or I will taunt you a second time!”

Published on November 4, 2009 in Uncategorized. 9 Comments
I didn’t necessarily need extra entertainment this afternoon, but this came into my Nadia West Facebook account:
EM November 4 at 5:02pm
omg ur like a perve ur fuckin profile pic on FACEBOOK is u naked?! holy fuck wat the hell is wrong with u?!

My reply:
Nadia West November 4 at 5:11pm
A) Who are you and why do you care? B) Are you capable of writing proper English or are you ignorant?
Nothing is wrong with me. I am quite happy, thank you. Quite educated, successful and comfortable with my body and sexuality.
She had to keep going. I suppose it’s the junior high thing to do. I looked through her friends list and didn’t find anyone who’s even on my regular Facebook list. Really odd that she found me, unless she’s looking for another Nadia West.
EM November 4 at 5:25pm
obviously ur stupid my name is right there! and i can write watever i want it is waayy more than a free country! i was lookin up one of my best friends and i scrolled down to find her and u came first! so i automatically almost through up. that was just scary and weird! and yes no dip ur fine with ur body fine enough with ur naked body!!! plus if ur gettin someone to take pix of u NAKED then ur not very succesful and u probably havent even had a bf yet wat r u 23 and ur ugly as shit!
Followed by:
EM November 4 at 5:25pm
ur like blood white, ur so white ur almost bloody!!
Yes, I found that comment to be utterly confusing as well. Anyway, my inner bitch came out, after all this girl contacted me and started calling me names. I couldn’t resist. Yes I can be a bitch.
NW November 4 at 5:45pm
As amusing as it is talking to you young lady, I don’t think I’ll keep up the correspondence after this. I’m very confused by your “blood white” comment. Last I checked, blood was red. But perhaps on the planet you’re from it’s white. I don’t know.
As for your name, yes it is right there but that still doesn’t explain WHO you are. And speaking of a free country, I can post naked pictures of myself if I like (I also blog about sexuality, I’m sure that will freak you out too). Although fact is, you’re making a big huff over some bare shoulders as my breasts and nipples are covered by a rectangle. (I follow facebook’s rules.) Yup, you’re shocked and nauseated by shoulders. You really should see a psychiatrist about that.

I’m 36 (and look damn good for my age, thanks for thinking I’m 23, I get that a lot), have Master’s degree, full time job and three wonderful boyfriends. I’m sure uptight little you won’t figure out how to have an orgasm til you’re 50.

What are you, 12? You’re certainly at that “awkward” stage in life. Poor thing

N.

Tee hee. That was more fun than it should have been. And it was definitely immature. But I didn’t want that young lady to think that berating people to conform with her value system would let her walk away unscathed.

P.S.  A few hours later she sent this:

dont u even think for a minute that im a “poor thing” ur so fuckin delusional…. no wonder a hippie creep like u i wouldnt denie it for 1 sec… and ur sp stupid if u had cool friends u would know wat blood red means no u dont look good for ur age btw plus i can only c the top of u which i saggy and grose and just plain discusting..!!!!

u gay motherfuckin perve omg and u should c a therapist about ur brain problem because obviously there is one! no u dont look good for ur age btw plus i can only c the top of u which i saggy and grose and just plain discusting..!!!! and holy fuck (!!!!) ur a whore 3 wonderful bf’s my azz! i bet u dont even have any kids or even married, ur gonna die alone and u know it. i think im just gonna block u so i dont have to deal with ur shit anymore u muther fuckin perve! p.s. there no real name for a old women who talks about ur upper body to young children, now if u were a guy which i dont doubt  u was b4, then THAT would b a pervert.

cheerio to u too bitch

Wow, this girl has issues. :-) I’m leaving it at that.

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Nadia’s Wishing Box

Published on November 4, 2009 in anal, bdsm, bisexuality, blow jobs, D/s, dom, dp, horny, kink, masturbation, orgasm denial, orgasm on command, porn, sex, sex toys, slut, submissive and Uncategorized. 2 Comments

Last night was a lovely evening with MasterDoc. I had been grumpy up until that point – the overstimulation and crowds of Costco put me in a bad mood during the afternoon. But as usual, once I was in my collar, submitting and getting some cock I became much calmer and happier.

We cuddled for a bit while MasterDoc talked on the phone to another Dom who is bringing his sub over for a sybian ride this weekend. It sounds like the two of them are cooking up lots of interesting things – I will sadly be at work when they come over this time, but perhaps next time or if they stay long enough I will be a part of it. I’m a little hesitant that I’m being told that the other woman has never been with a woman and her Dom thinks it’s about time – it’s really not fun being someone’s first woman if they’re not into it. She may very well be into it, or it could be totally painful. I will have to wait and see. Of course, this is painful simply because I will have to be the aggressor and we all know I suck at that. I’d much rather be with an experienced woman who takes control.

After he got off the phone, MasterDoc had me suck his cock for a while. I loved having it in my mouth and pushing as far to the back of my throat as I was able. He was rigid by the time he let me take a break. MasterDoc did something unusual then – as we cuddled he asked me what I wanted to do that night. ! I was speechless. You know you’re a well-trained submissive when you don’t even think about what you’d like to do. It’s always a given that we do what he wants, and I happily go along with it. It’s not that I don’t get input, I do, but the decision is his so I don’t think, “Well I really want a butt plug tonight.” Once we get started with sexytime, and my collar is on, I don’t think much, I just do. Sometimes there’s leeway when I set out toys – he’ll tell me to get out things I might like to play with. There’s never a guarantee that I’ll get what I want, of course, but he does take my requests under consideration.

As I lay there with my mouth open, unable to think up what I might want that evening, MasterDoc came up with an idea: we will set up a “wishing box” where I can put ideas whenever they come to me, and he can check it every so often and consider the suggestions. This way I get input, but it’s not expected on the spot and he still ultimately has control over what we do in an evening. (We agreed during this conversation that it really is less hot if I direct the action. On the other hand, I’m sure even wonderful Doms like MasterDoc could use some help with ideas now and then.) I’ve started writing out wishes on post it notes today. I have four sitting next to me on the sofa right now. I need to find a box to use. I love this idea!

MasterDoc took control back again since it was clear I was unable to think. We watched some porn (I just remembered I’m supposed watch this whole video – with sound – today. DeeDee recommended it to MasterDoc. She’s a very dirty girl!) and I got myself wet using my bullet vibe. It’s funny the things that don’t strike you as hot the first time you see it, but that gradually becomes hotter – gagging on cock seems really hot to me right now. As I watched that video, I thought about why slutty, kinky women are so hot – they enjoy sex and get into it with abandon. They allow themselves to be animalistic. They really let go and enjoy what they’re doing. I’ve only recently started realizing that about myself – I should allow myself to behave like a horny slut  because it’s hot. Being shy doesn’t serve much of a purpose.

MasterDoc fucked me from behind as he continued to watch the porn. I used the bullet vibe on my clit, but not directly. I held it a little off to the side so I wouldn’t get worked up too fast. I moaned and my thumb found its way into my mouth. I bit and sucked on it to help control the rising tide of orgasm that wanted to sweep over me.  He told me not to let myself get worked up too fast, and I obeyed as best I could. Oh it felt amazing. I entered subspace in a big way. He fucked me for what seemed like a very long time. I was so horny that I started crying out, “Oh that feels so good!” around the point when I’d usually start begging for orgasm. But subspace held me tight and I had a few, pinpointed thoughts, “I would do anything he wanted me to at this point.” And, “I’m so glad to be here, to be a hole for him to fuck when he wants to fuck. I am so glad he can use my body.” I was so happy, so turned on, so at peace. He started working his finger into my asshole and god I wanted to explode! When he told me to come, I came so very hard. And I kept coming over and over again, begging him to finger my ass more. The waves kept washing over me as he kept fucking or fingering or slapping my pussy and ass. I sometimes wonder if I should come as long as I do lately – do I come too much? Does he want me to come hard as long as he’s stimulating me? I want that. I’m amazed with how long he keeps me orgasming lately. I am ready to collapse by the time he decides I’ve had enough. My legs were exhausted from holding me up but my clenching cunt demanded attention, so I held the position until he was done with me.

I am so fortunate, and when my chemically imbalanced brain isn’t making me cranky, I’m incredibly happy with MasterDoc. I’m happy just to be hanging out at his place even when he’s not here. I have a huge smile on my face today. I have always needed a Dom and I’m feeling so complete now that I have one.

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Shane’s Visit

Published on November 4, 2009 in blow jobs, horny, masturbation, sex, sex toys, slut and Uncategorized. 4 Comments

MasterDoc pointed out recently that I have so much pleasure in my life, it’s strange that I get so depressed. And I have to agree with this statement. I think it’s further proof that depression is chemical – despite the hot sex and orgasms I still find things to dwell on and be dark about. But when I’m in the midst of fucking or coming – I am happy as a clam.

On Monday, Shane came over to my place. I hadn’t seen him since before my surgery a couple of weeks ago. He’s a very horny guy (ha! I say that as if I’m not a very horny girl!) and the form our usual dates take include food, sex, blow jobs and perhaps watching a movie. The order varies somewhat from date to date, but that’s ultimately what we do with each other. He’s extremely fond of getting blow jobs – I realize that pretty much all men are, but somehow he seems even more into it than most – and he had me suck his cock, but suggested I use a toy on myself at the same time. I got my trusty bullet vibe out and sat on the sofa with my legs spread, ass at the edge of the seat, as I sucked his cock and rubbed my clit with the buzzing vibe. When I came, I had to stop what I was doing for a moment as my body was wracked with shudders and twitches.

He found it difficult to stand up, so we switched positions – him sitting on the sofa and me on my knees on the floor. The front of my thighs tensed as I held myself up and kept the vibe between my legs. I came some more but interestingly enough it’s not as hard as I come after I’ve had to hold off coming. I kept working Shane’s cock over with my mouth, eager to make him come. I’ve found that I can’t get him quite over the edge – he always has to step in with his own hands. But he came, shooting come all over the side of my face, and he was happy.

We watched a movie and hung out for a while. After the movie he looked at me and I gave him that shy look of wanting to fool around. He’s realized that it’s hard for me to verbalize what I want, so he told me that was exactly what he wanted me to do.  I grew shyer, and he commented on how strangely shy I can be. I’m not shy about writing about sex, or about doing it, but when it comes to speaking about it I have always had a hard time. But, I was horny and I did manage to say, “I want to have sex with you.” He was hoping more for, “Please fuck me,” so I threw that in afterwards.

We went to the bedroom and he fucked me for a while, my vaginal muscles squeezing his cock as I came. I was in animalistic mode and I thrust my hips up at him as much as I could and rocked my body so that I kept moving on his cock. I was non-verbal again, but this time I grunted and moaned. Poor guy had a surprise a few times when my muscles clamped down really hard just as he pulled back and so when he went to put his cock back inside me it was like it hit a wall. We changed positions at some point – it’s a bit of a blur now. As we fucked and I came hard repeatedly, he would wince or say “ow!” now and then as my vagina of steel clenched his cock. We fucked hard and long. My steel vagina prevented him from being able to come, although condoms cause that problem for him as well. As usual, I helped him finish off afterwards as I stroked his body and played with his cock and pelvic area. I did my best to dirty talk a little by telling him I wanted him to come for me. He came again, another large load, this time on his tummy.

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Maid to Order

Published on November 1, 2009 in bdsm, blow jobs, D/s, exhibitionism, flogging, humiliation play, kink, masochism, orgasm on command, porn, sadism, sex, sex toys, shio, slut, spanking, squirting, submissive and Uncategorized. 3 Comments

It had been a while since MasterDoc and I did a show at his place. He liked my maid costume from Friday night enough that he had me wear it for the show. I greeted our guest at the door in black patent platform heels (I am probably 6’2″ in them), black fishnet stockings, little French maid dress w/ separate sleeves, the little headband that goes with the “uniform” and my collar. Thankfully, MasterDoc let me take the heels off shortly after our guest arrived. I am so not a high heels girl.

But I teetered on the heels as I answered the door as the “maid” and invited our guest in. I got him a glass of water and then went to get the toys that MasterDoc had requested for the show. I was a VERY good girl – he had said he wanted the strap so I got it. (Turns out he said strap but meant slut paddle. lol I got the strap (literally) because of him misspeaking.) I also got the two floggers, the two paddles (including the slut paddle), condoms, lube.

He had me kneel on the Liberator wedge in front of the recliner, I leaned forward on the chair and lifted my dress up in back. I had deliberately left off panties. MasterDoc commented on this and gave my ass a few swats. He discovered that I actually have bruises from Friday night – proof that he was really hitting me harder than usual. He took to spanking me – I think with the flogger. I got into a good headspace easily. He would alternate feeling my cunt to see if I was getting wet. Some strikes hurt more than others, but I was handling it fairly well, and getting wet.

Next, he had me lift my head up and suck his cock. It’s funny how I can be a total slut in front of strangers, but it’s easiest if I don’t have to look at them. Sucking cock is often, but not always, a good way to avoid eye contact. (But it’s especially difficult when he makes me suck AND look the audience in the eye.) He had me move the wedge over, so that I was kneeling in front of our guest, facing him. He had told me before that he wanted me to tease the man – rub my face against his cock through his pants. I struggled with this a bit, mainly rubbing my head against the guys’ inner thighs. MasterDoc reminded me that I had something to do and started in with hard whacks on my ass with the wooden paddle until I moved into action sufficiently. I felt really slutty. As we know, I don’t see this as a bad thing. I rubbed my face against the guys’ pants and MasterDoc beat me some more but lightened up on the hits. It felt like this went on for a long time, although it was likely just a couple of minutes.

He had me sit in the recliner, and by now I know to spread my legs and lift my dress as soon as I do so. He had me use the acuvibe mini on myself and he tried to fuck me in that position. Unfortunately the height is not quite right. He told me to get myself worked up so that I’m able to come as soon as he stuck his dick into me. It was a bit of a let down that the chair was not the right height.

I was on my knees in front of him again as he sat on the couch. I sucked his cock and played with his inner thighs as he told the guest about the perks of having a submissive. He’s trained me to touch him in exactly the ways he likes. In a vanilla relationship, it can be kind of insulting to pick apart your partner’s technique, but in a D/s situation, it’s part of the deal. He stroked his cock for a while as he spoke and I played with his ass and inner thighs making him feel good.

He had me get on the floor and play with my bullet vibe as my spread legs faced him and the guest. I got really worked up as ordered and he had me get on hands and knees for a fucking. I was on the verge of coming as he slid his cock into me, and like the well-trained submissive I’ve become, I came. And came. And he slapped my ass, grabbed my hips and buried his cock deep inside as I kept coming. My body went somewhat limp and I ended up resting my head and shoulders on the mat by the end.

He tried to decide what to do next and I sucked his cock some more. Luckily I got him hard and he decided to fuck me again. This time, on my back with the axis under my ass. The pillow put me right up against his cock as he slid it in. Our guest had been given a flashlight to use as a spotlight. Once MasterDoc’s cock was in, there wasn’t so much to watch, so he had our guest hold my legs up and back. The angle was such that he couldn’t thrust much, but I focused on the feeling of his cock. The brain is the largest sex organ, and in the right situation I can psych myself up into an orgasm. (Has to already be a hot situation, just one where there’s perhaps not as much physical stimulation as I usually need.) I was soon ready to come. I got to come again, this time squirting a little. He called me a whore in the middle of it and this really flips my switch. Afterward,  I was well-fucked and happy for a little break.

I got to sit on the sofa with MasterDoc and take my collar off, so I could relax a bit and be more casual. The guy who came to the show was nice. I’m always glad when they turn out to be non-creepy. I guess it’s kinda hot in the humiliation sort of way to be fucked and slutty in front of someone you dislike, but I prefer an appreciative audience that doesn’t try too hard to call me a slut and whore. I love MasterDoc doing it – not so crazy about some guy I don’t know. I think it’s because I know that MasterDoc doesn’t think badly of sluts or whores. Sometimes you wonder about the guys who watch the shows.

We watched the filthy porn MasterDoc had chosen before the show, which ran in the background all the while. It’s an intense German porn with lots of force, cum, piss, women swapping the cum and piss between their mouths – that sort of thing. I mentioned how I liked the bondage with the woman struggling. Our guest asked if that was my “thing.” Upon reflection, MasterDoc and I agreed that perhaps it would be easier for me to list what I’m NOT into. Yup, I’m a sick freak and he knows it (and loves it).

The costume came in handy since I’m feeling a bit self-conscious about my scars from my recent surgery. No one’s had to see my tummy yet in a party or show situation thanks to that maid costume. I don’t feel self-conscious around MasterDoc, so I’ve happily been naked around him nearly all weekend. I’ll adjust and of course the scarring will fade with some time.

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