By: kittyburns

kittyburns — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:27:47 +0000

Thanks for this post. I’m a 51 year old cute and fit woman married to a 42 year old. After 16 years of vanilla sex marriage, we’ve been delving into the world of alternative sex and recently went to a swing club where I had an unpleasant experience. A young (20 something) guy came up to us (me, husband and beautiful, sexy, tiny, strawberry spinner friend) and said “You, (pointing at husband) I understand. Her, (pointing at 40 year old spinner) I understand. But you, (pointing at me, 5’4″ 130 lbs. wearing cute jeans, spike heels and black tank) don’t fit. You don’t seem like the type. You look like a school teacher.” Bingo – I am. I think it was less my style (sexy, but conservative) than it was my age. I tried not to let it get to me, but it did and now I’m reluctant to venture out there with my husband. I’m not ready for rejection when I’m putting myself out there to have fun. I hope more people have an open mind (like you!) and try to experience all ages. You might be surprised.

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By: kittyburns