Yearly Archive for 2009

e[lust] #4

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♦ This Week’s Top Three Posts ♦

Interrogation - I looked up at him, feigning cluelessness. “I know you can understand me. So I ask you again. Where are the lenses?” Another strike. I crumpled into the bench.

Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top - There’s something supposedly anti-feminist about wanting to dominate. There’s something in the feminist rhetoric which says we are all equal especially in bed, so that means I-do-you-you-do-me….

Fire and IceThe rain comes down harder around us, the freez­ing drop pelt­ing what­ever skin lies exposed over the sur­face of the water.

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By the Twinkling Lights… - His lips found my nipples and I forgot about the cold. If a car were to drive by and the passengers were to look past the twinkling lights on the tree, they would have seen a naked woman’s rear end pressed against the glass wall..

♦ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick)

Ronjazz: Late Night Rendezvous - Meet me in the parking lot at the post with the broken lamp. 10PM sharp! Do not be late! Stand facing the post, eyes closed. Wear a flimsy dress and heels – nothing else!

See also: Pleasurists #58 and #59 for all your sex toy review needs

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Writing

Adoration

Diary Of A Pissed Off Wife

Happy Halloween

Heartbreak hotel

Heat

Lips…Tongue…Taste

Marathon Sex

Not Always, But Often: Part 1

Our (Sorta) Intro to BDSM

Rising above the Background

Sex at 2am

The Babysitter

The Chair

The Beginning?

The Pleasure Chest

The Slut Chronicles #10 ~ The Interview

The Walk

Today’s Specials: Orgasms, Wet Panties, and Margaritas

Twinkling Heat

We are glass

What I Want

Kink & Fetish

Amber’s New Dungeon

Awesome Body Mod Night

Co-Hypno-Topping

Day of Debauchery

Go Ask Teresa: Mothers

Helpless

Jack was a Picky Eater

Kissing Noises

My very first experience of BDSM

Mouth

Play Piercing? Seriously? Why?!?

Sounds and Catheters

The Taking of M

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Aftercare, Part I: The Basics

Ask The Negress: Privacy & Perversion.

Boundaries…

Do Slaves Deserve Love?

Gyne-Vestiphobia: Fear of Women’s Clothing

Let There Be Love

On My Experience With Sex Toys

Riding The Crimson Wave – Having Sex On Your Period

The Gangbang as Social Commentary

Titty Fucking

TPE (Total Power Exchange): A Novice’s Perspective

Weekend Fun

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

December 17th

God rest ye, merry cuckold!

You’ve Got To Be Nuts


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Bondage and Being Ignored

I have a new toy to review and I got to try it out last night for the first time. It’s “behind the back restraint“:  basically a collar with rings attached and a leather piece leading down the back, at the base of this leather piece are two wrist cuffs. MasterDoc put me in it and I was really quite helpless. He then decided to nap on the sofa and I was to wake him in 15 minutes. I sat there, hands behind my back and became totally aroused. I had been watching kinky porn before this, so I was already in a state of arousal but the  bondage and knowing that MasterDoc had essentially “left” me there in that state while he napped down the other end of the couch got me even more worked up. I contemplated why I liked the sensation and I think the vulnerability of having my breasts so exposed and not being able to use my hands at all was the key. The idea of being attacked with nipple clamps that I can’t possibly take off myself, putting me entirely at his mercy made me squirm as I sat there.

He didn’t really nap much but did have me articulate what I was thinking. Then he conjured up a hot outfit to put me in next time we’re out in a club:  my leather waist cincher, the behind the back restraint, a leash attached to that collar, Njoy pure plug up my ass, a gag and a blindfold. Wow. That is just so hot. Talking to Stacina online today she added in the idea of a skirt, panties and blouse – that would then be cut off using a sharp, shiny object (blouse and panties anyway).

I was reasonably comfortable in the restraints and I really enjoyed the helplessness. Problem was, we hadn’t set up any necessary items and I couldn’t even stand up from being on the couch with my arms like that! MasterDoc undid the cuffs and sent me off to the bedroom to set up. I was sad to be let free, but certainly it was practical so MasterDoc wouldn’t have to do the setting up.

When the bedroom was set, he lay on the bed and ended up in an IM conversation with Stacina. He had me lay behind him on the bed and amuse myself. I was already wet and playing with my myself when he laughed and filled me in on what Stacina was saying. Apparently she is rather switchy and was suggesting keeping him online talking to her for an extended period of time to torture me. Yikes! Sad thing is, submissive that I am, I got so hot thinking about that – about how they were deliberately ignoring me as I got more and more worked up. I started fantasizing about the two of them controlling me and taking turns fucking me. *fans self* I was really worked up. MasterDoc handed me the magic wand for a while and I teased myself deliciously until the wand started rendering me numb.

He finished his conversation shortly thereafter and turned his attention to me. I was stroking my clit, massaging my cunt. He lay down between my legs and watched me work myself up into a frenzy. My eyes were closed mostly but I loved the idea that he was stroking himself, getting hard while he watched me masturbate. I was feeling really wanton and loose. I think I used to hold back a bit with how horny I was feeling but now I get down to touching myself freely. Before he had even come into the bedroom I ran my hands over my breasts and stomach, passionately aroused.

MasterDoc fucked me from behind, and I held out begging to come for as long as I possibly could. These days I often just wait it out and enjoy the ride until he decides it’s time for me to come. I think I should be taped sometime for the audio track of a porn flick – I moan, gasp and squeal like crazy because I’m so turned on. Lately I like pressing my arousal to the point of near orgasm, but instead of coming I ride the wave of sensation until it ebbs enough to keep me from going over the edge.

The fucking was delicious. I did break down and beg for orgasm and shortly after he let me come. He plunged his cock deep into me as I twitched and came. After a while my vaginal muscles pushed his cock out and I squirted as he slapped my pussy. I kept writhing and coming and next he ran his hand up my back. Every little touch made me keep coming. He spanked my ass, first one cheek than the other and the pain felt so wonderful I cried out, “Yes! Yes!” as I came some more from the pain.

When he told me that I had had enough, I lay there in a daze. I thanked him for the orgasm and I must have been absolutely glowing. I stroked his chest and cuddled for a while, then he decided to shoo me out of the room while he went back online. I was so utterly satisfied that I was happy to go amuse myself with my laptop.

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Giving Credit Where Credit is Due

I receive a lot of compliments on this blog, and I appreciate them all. I put in the time and effort to write it. But I want to point out that the blog would be very, very different without MasterDoc. He comes up with the things we do, and it’s his deviant mind that provides the tales I relate here.

This reminds me of one of his favorite stories. Apparently he was out at a bdsm club years ago with his lady at the time. He did all sorts of hot, kinky shit to her and after, a guy comes over to her and says, “Wow, that was really hot!”

MasterDoc says to him, “Excuse me, but when you go to a magic show, do you compliment the wand?”

It’s time I pointed out the magician behind the magic here.

I can hear him now, “Aw babe, you didn’t have to do that.” But I’m sure at the same time he’ll be thrilled.

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Coming

I’ve been feeling really subby the past day or so. While my insecurities scream from the back of my mind as usual, the sub in me has felt happy for MasterDoc to have fun with others when I’ve not been around. Being poly makes him happy. And I like seeing him happy. Perhaps I will manage to internalize this yet.

He had over our friend V. and our new kinky friend, Stacina, while I was at work yesterday. I certainly would have loved to be there to see V. fuck Stacina with a strap on than be at work. It sounded like it was hot. MasterDoc was then going to spend the remaining time fucking our new friend after V. had to go home but her back went out. Ever the gentleman, he set her up on the heating pad and took care of her. Of course, when I got to his place after work last night he was feeling a bit sexually frustrated. I was quite happy to be there to help him deal with the frustration.

Last night any little thing MasterDoc did that exhibited authority turned me on. When we got cozy in bed, he looked at my wishing box even though I haven’t added anything lately. (I did later that night however.) I told him that I couldn’t come up with new things to add, and he pointed out that it’s not just new things that go in there, but things that I wish we were doing more. Ah! I will keep that in mind. He read through each piece of paper and I realized that I couldn’t quite remember what was in there.

We watched some porn laying against each other, my back to his tummy and we both stroked ourselves. He reached over me and grabbed the magic wand, turned it on, and pressed it against my clit. I was so horny instantly and soon after he started he said that I can come as much as I like for the next minute.

I lost control completely as always. I squirted a little. I came over and over, being tossed like a ship on a stormy sea from one peak to the next. I can’t imagine what I look like at those moments. All I’m aware of is my entire body being gripped by orgasm. Body, brain, soul. He pulled the wand away after one minute.

I lay there recovering. And I remembered the all important, “Thank you, Sir,” in the aftermath of the orgasm he gave me.

He had me put the wedge under him and get on top but his cock wasn’t quite ready. Instead we cuddled and I stroked his cock. He talked dirty to me, taking control of the situation. He asks if I want to feel his cock inside me. Breathlessly I say, “Yes, Sir.” I moan a little and press my body against his. His cock is completely hard now and he decides on a change of plans – he has me get on hands and knees.

He fucked me while watching porn. While this was going on, I thought about how hot it is to be fucked while being somewhat objectified – for him to enjoy me while his attention is on the porn and I’m just there to plunge his dick into. I moan like crazy and could come at any second. After a good long fuck, he pulls out. He tells me: “Come” and I orgasm while he slaps my cunt. The come squirts out and splatters as he slaps. I come so hard that I start to worry I might pass out. My awareness goes hazy, it kinda fades in and out with the alternation of my breathing and holding breath. I keep saying this lately (at least to myself if not here), “I’ve never come this hard before!” like every time is even better than the last. I squirted again while coming.

After I’ve recovered, he says he wants to come, and I think that means I’ll be behind him playing with ass like most times. He says no, that I will help from in front. I focus in on his cock as he strokes it and I massage his ass and thighs. I become almost mesmerized watching him up close. When he’s nearly ready to come, he has me put my mouth over his cock and I feel the head in between my lips. He comes and I feel it spurting out of his cock and onto my tongue. A few quick spurts and I can feel the come resting on my tongue. He has me hold the come and his cock in my mouth for a while. He tells me to suck and more drops come out of his cock into my come-filled mouth.

I show him the cum in my mouth and he tells me to let it dribble out. It dribbles out too fast at first but I still had some in my mouth and did it more slowly the second time. He liked watching the come dribble out of my mouth. I liked being the dirty whore who held his come in my mouth and drooled it all over after. I later added to the box that I want to have him come in my mouth more often, that I want to be made to play with his come. I enjoyed that so much I was smiling like the Cheshire cat after.

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Pleasurists #58

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Editor’s Pick

  • Eros and Isis Leo by Domina Doll
  • Their line of sensual adult toys are made from 100% silicone and are exquisite objects d’art. With names like Lancelot, Cleo and Leo the Lion, their inspiration lies in mythical eroticism and fervent fantasies. Each erotic object is disguised as a fine art collectable and resemble antiqued silver, jade or gold chess pieces or figurines.

    Note: Every once in a while a toy comes along that simply takes my breath away, and I just can’t resist making it EP for the week, and this was one of those. There are tons of other amazing reviews this week, though too, it was difficult to choose!

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New Butt Plug

Now that I got the concerns of my last post off my chest, I can talk about the fantastically hot sex I had Sunday afternoon. I purchased an Njoy Pure Plug (medium) recently and tried it out yesterday. (Yes, occasionally I do purchase toys! Some of the best toys are near impossible to get for reviewing purposes.)

MasterDoc had me gather a butt toy, a dildo, lube, condoms and blindfold, and put my collar on. I made a special trip out to the living room where my new plug was. After looking at the assembled toys he said, “Let’s try out this new plug.” He had me get on hands and knees on the bed and he lubed up the plug and worked it in. (I think the complete smoothness of the material is a definite plus.) He asked if I could get up and move around with it, and I said that yes, I could. He had me go to the kitchen to get him a drink of water. As I moved around the apartment, I couldn’t stop noticing the feeling of fullness and weight in my ass.

He asked me a bit about how it felt, such as, did it keep me constantly aware that I had a plug in my ass? Yes. He talked about me trying it out while at work, on a short day to begin with. Christmas eve has been chosen, and I’m supposed to wear it that day. It will be something that makes me nervous but is also fantastically hot. (Too bad I’m not seeing MasterDoc that day. I’m sure I’ll be a bundle of horniness by the time I get home in the afternoon.)

MasterDoc had me get on hands and knees again, facing the foot of the bed so he wouldn’t have to move from his comfortable spot laying on the bed. He teased me with the hitachi magic wand on the plug. It felt amazing. Every movement of the plug, whether by his hand or the vibrator felt so tingly and arousing. He placed the wand on my clit and teased me mercilessly. I slid easily into subspace. All I was at that moment in time was a bundle of nerve endings aching for orgasm. My animalistic groans must have sounded so hot. He told me to come, and I did. He pushed the wand hard against my clit and I pushed back to get the maximum vibration to my tingly bits. He took the wand away and his fingers teased my clit. It was so sensitive that it kept me coming. Every touch was divine at that point.

His cock was hard from making me come like that so he fucked me – longer and harder than usual. He left the plug in my ass and it feels amazing being fucked with it in. He had me moaning  like crazy again, ready to come at any second. He’d jiggle the plug, stimulating my ass while he fucked my cunt. I was lost in my own headspace,  just feeling his cock slide in me and how tight it felt with the plug filling up my ass at the same time. I was gasping, panting, groaning. He seemed to be enjoying himself and I’m thrilled that using me as a fuck hole can make him feel good. That in itself turns me on.

I start to wonder if he might come from fucking me (an extremely rare event for MasterDoc). He fucked me until he was tired then we rested. He commented on how at that moment I was surprisingly not whiny about not coming. I point out that yes, I’m not being whiny but I’m still QUITE horny. He tells me to finger myself and that he will count to 10. I have to come whenever I am able before he gets to ten. I get nervous but get moving and follow his instructions. I come after about 3 counts just from rubbing my clit. I squirt, writhe and make myself come hard. He gets hard again and fucks me again after that. Again, the fucking was divine. He teased me throughout the sex that, “Nadia has a new favorite sex toy!” Yes indeed I do.

He made me feel amazingly good. I wish everyone could make me feel like he does. I wish I could bottle that feeling for days when I’m down. I felt so happy after our little afternoon interlude. I’m looking forward to the utter naughtiness of wearing my plug at work.

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Rape Culture and Triggers

*trigger warning*

Earlier today, MasterDoc showed me something on fetlife that he thought was sick and twisted, but sorta funny. I won’t put it here since that would require me looking for it, and that would not be good for me to do. I cannot read it again. To sum up: it was a sp0of on “Twas the Night Before Christmas,” a rhyming tale of a man who chloroforms his wife, invites his girlfriend in to help him fuck his wife while she’s unconscious, (the wife comes in the story while she’s unconscious), he slips her a roofie when she starts to come to, films the entire thing, and then when she gets up in the morning and relates to him the “dream” she had, he tells her that wow, that sounds hot, wish I could have been there. Now, granted, different people read things differently. I had to point out to MasterDoc the fact that nowhere in there was any indication at all that this was consensual. No indication to the reader that this was a D/s relationship where consent has already been given for activities like this. Call me a stuffy old feminist assault survivor, but I don’t find rape funny. He had assumed consent, but when I pointed this out he read it again and agreed, there was no clear, or even implied consent. (And the whole bit about her coming during the assault is typical “women enjoy being raped” bullshit.)

I wasn’t inclined to post a comment myself, as I’ve seen too often that women will be dismissed as lacking a sense of humor for calling this shit out. But as a survivor of non-consensual sex I was really upset after reading this. I burst into tears while talking to MasterDoc about it. It’s an indication of the rape culture we live in that this is seen as humorous and acceptable by otherwise reasonable people. (Someone else we know posted a positive comment on this thread. Women posted positive comments on this thread.) MasterDoc decided to post a comment pointing out the problems with the post but the thread owner opted to delete it. He did, however, write to MasterDoc essentially explaining that he thinks that people on fetlife are all adults and able to look at a poem like that and appreciate that it’s not non-consensual. I disagree.

I wondered aloud if the following poem would have gotten the same level of appreciation: a woman chloroforms her husband without his consent, ties him up, invites in some guys to peg his ass while he’s unconscious, and then she lets him think that the whole experience was a dream (but meanwhile she’s filmed it). Would people find that as amusing? But you know, I don’t think that would ever be put out there as humor. I also think that most people are so conditioned by the rape culture that only other survivors would “get” the problem with it. (I worry that the scenario I just related would trigger a man who’s experienced sexual violence.)

The triggering for me was the way that raping the woman was treated like a big joke. When I was assaulted and wrote on my old blog about it, while most people were appalled at what happened one or two told me that I was blowing it out of proportion. They basically told me that I didn’t have the right to feel traumatized. That it wasn’t assault. The guy who did it to me tried to convince me that it was just an “accident.” While I did get support, the few people who dismissed my trauma as inconsequential did a tremendous amount of damage to me.

In all fairness, I don’t think there was any malice in the posting on fetlife. Not true malice. And MasterDoc felt terrible for showing it to me and said that he should have known better. I’m not at all mad at him as he had no intent of harming me. (Had he thought for a second that this post would upset me so, he would have never showed it to me.) I don’t think the author meant to convey a true non-consensual experience. After all, I can understand the fantasy of intoxication play – where one partner is heavily intoxicated, consensually, and the other person then has their way with them. Done consensually, I could find that really hot. Some people would still be triggered by this.

Driving home today, I started thinking that perhaps I was too sensitive about this. After all, the guy tells the wife that her story is so hot when she relates it to him; one would hope that if she was anything but enthusiastic about her “dream” he wouldn’t say that. But I don’t know – am I thinking this only because I’ve been conditioned as a woman not to cause shit? I’m not naive enough to think that the world is safe and that I shouldn’t ever come across something thoughtless and triggering. Shit happens. And what triggers me won’t trigger the next person, and vice versa. (Over on Shakesville this week there was an open thread about bdsm. I enjoyed reading the discussion concerning bdsm and feminism. But the moderator had to shut down the thread because she was triggered. And I think if she was triggered she totally did the right thing – took care of herself. Just because it didn’t trigger me doesn’t mean it can’t trigger someone else who has had different experiences.) But I do think that times like this are valuable moments to raise the consciousness of others.

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Day of Debauchery

Friday was quite a full day of pervyness with MasterDoc. Early in the afternoon, he had a lady who’s a switch come over with the intention of her helping top me. But somehow he found out that she also has a swing profile and he proceeded to look up the profile and read it out loud to her. He teased her mercilessly as it’s quite a slutty profile. (Yeah, like either of us have an issue with sluts. They’re our favorite people!) She turned red and we all laughed so hard. When he got to the point about how she can come from just neck/ear nibbling or nipple stimulation he said, “Oh yeah?” and proceeded to play with her neck. The laughing stopped around then, and she was immediately in a horny reverie, head tipping back, mouth open. He took out one breast and I took out the other, and the two of us made her come from just sucking on her nipples. It was loads of fun. He teased her sadistically some more, and somehow none of us ever ended up naked. But we had the best time laughing and teasing. I’m hoping we get to see her again soon. (And while I was perfectly happy with how the visit turned out, I do look forward to being topped by two people at once someday!)

Later in the afternoon, an Irish guy who had watched a show before came over to see us again. MasterDoc put me over the Liberator scoop, used the wrist and thigh cuffs to attach me to the scoop, and spanked my ass. It felt more sting-y than usual yesterday and the canes smarted something awful. He alternated with the riding crop as well which was easier to handle. His wooden paddle was almost unbearable. He helped me deal with the pain by putting the magic wand up against my cunt while he spanked me some more. I did my best to grind my clit against the wand, but it was always just slightly off to the side of the ideal spot. But I got so hot, and so far into subspace, from that beating/teasing combo. He let me lay over the scoop for a few minutes after so I could come down a bit.

He took off the wrist cuffs and I felt floaty when I got up. I knelt before him, he was seated on the couch, and sucked MasterDoc’s cock. He did a little face fucking again, which produced lots of drool. It’s not easy being gagged like that but I do think it’s terribly hot. The river of drool that comes out as my mouth is pulled off is really sexy in a nasty sort of way. Earlier, he had told me I’m a dirty slut and made me admit that I wanted to be used in front of our guest. The low growl to his voice as he makes me look him in the eye and say these things get me so hot. I feel embarrassed but oh so turned on.

He had me warm up on the floor mat with the magic wand. I couldn’t look our guest in the eye too often but I did get myself very close to orgasm quickly. MasterDoc fucked me from behind for a bit and the feel of his cock inside me while I pressed the magic wand to my clit would have easily been enough to send me (way) over the edge. But I wasn’t given permission to come just yet. I had to pull the wand away from my clit a bit to ensure I didn’t come accidentally. But it felt so good and I wanted to come so badly.

Our guest had told MasterDoc beforehand that he wanted to see me fucked up the ass, and so MasterDoc pulled his cock out and lubed up my ass and my slender, red glitter dildo. He slid the dildo into my ass to warm me up and it felt great as he fucked me with it. I think I’m still a little surprised at how aroused I can get from anal stimulation. This didn’t last long, and MasterDoc put his hard cock against my hole. For a moment it felt like it wasn’t going to go in, but then it pushed past my sphincter. Holy shit did it feel good to feel his large cock in my ass. He fucked me hard while our guest watched and I moaned like a bitch in heat. MasterDoc talked dirty to me, telling me I’m a good little three hole slut and other equally hot, nasty things. He knows that telling me I’m a slut, whore, fucktoy, etc. will get me off even harder.

When he told me to come, I came so very hard. I screamed, my head slid forward off the mat. He kept fucking my ass and I must have gotten absolutely flooded with wetness. He took his cock out and fingered me a bit, making me come more. I had to lay down to rest for a while after. I was in a wonderful state of subspace.

He topped off the show with a sybian ride, but first I had to earn it by licking his ass. He had me rub his ass a bit and as I looked at it I was filled with dread. I know analingus doesn’t bother some people but it’s not one of my favorite things. I did as I was told, however, and humiliatingly ate out his ass while our guest watched. Quite a bit of humiliation play let me tell you.

On the sybian, he teased me for a bit and then I came shrieking and screaming, burying my head into his chest. I think he and our guest were quite amused at watching me lose all control like that. He had our guest spank me while I rode the sybian and I loved being spanked during it. The whole experience was exceptional. If every time could be so intense, nasty and hot, I would just live in perpetual heaven. (Not that I don’t already come close, mind you.)

Later that night our friend came over and I got to use my strap on harness on her. But you will have to go to the review to get an account of that.

Oh and a little tidbit – the needles MasterDoc ordered for needleplay came in!

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Review: Plus Size Strap on Harness

Last night, I got to review the strap on harness I’ve had on hand for quite a while now. Our friend V. came over for a birthday spanking (caning, flogging, etc.) and we used it on each other to see how it was.

Watching her get beaten by MasterDoc was lots of fun. He secured her to the scoop and left her with a very red, welted ass. He also used the heavy flogger on her upper back as she quite likes that. She then got a sybian ride. Unfortunately, it numbs her out after a short period of time.

The sextoy.com site says that the Fetish Fantasy Plus Size Strap on Harness is made of leather. I would have assumed that it’s faux leather due to the stiffness of the material. This isn’t one of those butter-soft leather harnesses, it’s stiff. If you’re petite the part that goes between your thighs will undoubtedly dig into you and possibly chafe. The loops that attach the ring to the harness are also stiff and they poke the recipient when fucked. It’s not painful so much as distracting. It’s not clear if the material would soften up a little with wear, but it doesn’t seem like it would ever be as soft and comfortable as you would want a harness to be.

“Bow down before my almighty cock!”

The dildo included is jelly, the box says it’s “phthalate-free” but I must point out that jelly is porous and so you should still use a condom with it every time – even if you’re the only person using it. We found the jelly dong to be a little too flexible, and difficult to keep inside because of this. It’s fairly long and for me it was too long and poked my cervix. This, of course, can be dealt with by not thrusting as deep. V. and I agreed that we prefer silicone cocks. And certainly you could use a silicone dildo in place of the dildo provided.

I put my hand at the base to keep the sharp bits from poking V.

I fucked her with the harness first, and it certainly is made for plus size women. I was able to put it on with lots of extra in the straps, so an even more voluptuous woman could wear it as well. The straps, when properly tightened did stay put but there was still some gaping between pelvis and harness at points. Still, it did what it was supposed to do. Despite my lack of strap on experience (I have a little but very little) I fucked her until she came. MasterDoc snapped pics for this review while we fucked. It’s such a cool feeling to fuck a woman until she comes.

See the red welts on her ass from the earlier beating?

Next, she tried the harness on and used it on me. She’s shorter than I am (I’m downright amazonian) and said the harness didn’t fit quite as comfortably. It gaped a bit in front as well. But it did stay tightened.

While it does what it’s supposed to, this harness is not the best out there. I’d recommend investing in a more expensive but more flexible harness. The between the thighs styling is good for transmitting some pressure to the wearer during sex, but my personal favorite style of harness is one where the straps go around each thigh and leave the pussy open and accessible. (Your mileage may vary of course.) If you get this harness, it will do what it’s supposed to, but it’s less than ideal.

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Thursday

I don’t have an HNT ready for today. I need to take more pictures. (Any photogs interested?) I bought a masquerade mask on sale from torrid.com so I can try out some pics with the mask hiding my identity.

I am experimenting with formspring, a new site that lets people ask you questions anonymously (or not). I’m adding a widget for this over to the right.

Oh and anyone willing to school me on wordpress,  let me know. There’s glitches on this site and no matter how I try I can’t get two sidebars to work. Argh!

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