Party

The party was pretty fun, although not a sex party in the sense of many I’ve been to. It was more of a meet ‘n’ greet and see the ladies dance sexily together sort of party. N.’s friend ended up getting quite sloshed and she seemed into the idea of going back to our place with us. So the four of us (Davey, me, N. and his lady friend) drove to the suburbs and got to our place around 3 a.m.

She went after me with a passion – she’s a stereotypical Latina in that respect. I hadn’t been with a woman in a while (many months now) so I went with it, plus with the situation with her and N. being that he can’t tell her that he dates me made me wonder how much it was okay to go after him. Apparently he told her that he knows me via the poly community but that’s it.

I didn’t enjoy the dynamic between me and him being so different. I’m quite into him and having to act like a casual acquaintance kinda sucked. But I figure he was seeing her before me and they already had their agreement that each could do whatever they wanted but she didn’t want to know about what he got up to. I have no desire to rock the boat. But it sucked having to pretend.

Anyway, back to the bedroom! Apparently N. had suggested the two couples swapping and splitting up while I was away in the bathroom but she nixed the idea. Seems like she wanted everything and everyone. Mostly the action consisted of her going after me and both of us paying a little attention to the guys in between. (The guys found it hard to keep their enthusiasm up with the intermittent attention, although Davey says he had a great time watching me and a hot Latina get it on.) I went down on a woman for the first time in ages and it was the first time I went down on a woman with pubic hair and she didn’t taste… pungent. I’m generally not a fan of body hair. (I keep mine shaved.)

It was all very hot but ultimately I didn’t come. I was very tired by this point and being fingered by a woman with long nails isn’t erotic so much as it’s nerve wracking. She got fucked a little by both guys but I didn’t get any. So it was hot and fun but not satisfying. Of course, Davey took care of me the next day.

In the aftermath, she’s now saying that she doesn’t remember what happened and that maybe someone slipped something into her drink at the party. Of course, on the train ride home she told N. that she had had 5-7 drinks, which would be quite a lot for me and I weigh nearly 100 lbs more than she does. I wonder if she got into me and Davey because she knew that N. wanted her to, and she’s regretting her decision now. I don’t know. But it’s disturbing to think a woman I fooled around with would be at all upset and feel taken advantage of. I hadn’t realized just how drunk she was or I’d have maybe handled things differently. She aggressively came after me so I figured she was into it. I don’t know. There was never a point where she said stop or no or anything at all negative. I mainly remember her saying things like, “Put that pussy in my face.”

I rather doubt Davey and I will fool around with her again after this though. I’m leery of fooling around with anyone who needs to get drunk to do it anyway. Yikes.